When Guests Become Family

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Guests are always welcome in every Indian household. We live by the saying “Atithi Devo Bhava,” which means that a guest is like God and must be treated with respect. However, at times, the label guest creates a sense of formality and awkwardness. The feeling is completely different when the person is close and treated like family.

A small fellowship or gathering with a comfortable group feels truly special. Sitting together, talking, bonding, and sharing food creates a sense of warmth and belonging. This entire month was centred on sharing, caring, and fellowship. The last two days, in particular, were about two different families coming together and eating as one. Such moments are special because, despite busy schedules, we rarely find time to gather in this way.

The cutlery reserved for guests, hidden away in cupboards, finally comes into use. If it could speak, it would surely shout, “Hurray!” This is followed by a long process of cleaning and arranging, often cleaning an already clean room. Yet, the moment guests arrive, we somehow notice a spot we had missed earlier.

All the effort and tiredness fade away when everyone finally sits together to enjoy a hot meal not just eating, but truly savouring every last grain of rice. In the end, it is not only the guests who leave with happiness; the family that hosts them feels equally blessed and fulfilled.

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